September 22, 2024 | by Unboxify
Are you a single woman looking to understand men? Do you ever wonder why it’s challenging to keep the man you desire? This comprehensive guide is part of a three-episode series designed to unlock the secrets of securing a committed relationship. While men are often considered simple, complexities in relationships present their own challenges. In this final episode, we’ll discuss the unbreakable rule essential to your romantic success.
It may seem harsh, but accepting responsibility for your relationship status is crucial. Just as men need to be sufficiently attractive to secure a sexual opportunity, women need to be attractive in various dimensions to secure commitment. It starts and ends with you.
To get any man you want, you need to focus on three key things:
Being useful goes beyond superficial appeal. It means integrating yourself so deeply into a man’s life that your presence becomes indispensable.
Fulfilling a man’s sexual desires innovatively is key to creating a lasting bond. Doing things with him sexually that he hasn’t done with other women ensures he associates unique experiences with you.
Many women complain that they’ve been useful and adventurous but still can’t secure a committed relationship. The missing piece is often the unbreakable rule: **Never disrespect the man you want to be with**.
Disrespect can manifest in many unforeseen ways. While you might feel you’re doing everything right, even small indications of disrespect can cause significant damage.
You need to be vigilant about how you communicate, not just with your man but also about him.
Applying the unbreakable rule requires consistent diligence. It’s a “going out of business sale” for disrespect; every single iota of it must go.
Let’s take a real-world example to elaborate on this rule. Imagine a woman confused about why her boyfriend abruptly turned hostile during a dinner date. It’s tempting to label the man as irrational, but a closer examination might reveal triggers that sparked the reaction, potentially originating from disrespectful behavior.
Another reason women might fail to keep a man, even while being useful and sexually innovative, is the “female savior complex.” This is akin to the “white knight” syndrome in men.
Respect is an action-oriented quality. If you do something disrespectfully, you can do the same thing respectfully. Remove all disrespectful components from your actions to ensure you keep the man you want.
Effective communication is crucial for maintaining respect. Here are some methods to consider:
Non-verbal cues significantly impact respect. Be mindful of:
Disrespect can be nuanced and may vary in different situations. Think about your interaction with him just like you would with a superior at work. If you wouldn’t do it at the office, don’t do it with your partner.
Your respectful demeanor must extend beyond face-to-face interactions.
A fail-safe method to ensure respectful behavior is to envision your partner as a superior officer. Would you criticize a boss openly or with disrespect? Apply the same principles to your interactions with your man.
Men are a blend of angelic patience and primal instincts. Disrespect often triggers an animalistic response, contradicting the notion of viewing men as emotional robots.
Just as animals respond based on their nature, men too react to disrespect predictably. Expecting perfect transcendence while offering disrespect confuses the dynamics of the relationship.
If women persist with disrespect despite attempts at improvement, men are left with one viable option:
Learning to communicate disagreement or correction without resorting to disrespect is an art. Hereβs how:
Embed respectful communication into your interactions fundamentally.
Treat your internal thoughts about your man with the same level of respect as you would in conversation. Your perception of him impacts how you treat him.
Achieving and maintaining a successful relationship is possible by adhering to these three cardinal rules:
The steps might seem straightforward, yet their execution can be challenging. Align your actions with these principles to secure and keep the man you desire.
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