September 19, 2024 | by Unboxify
Whenever we think of networking, we often imagine a roomful of nicely dressed individuals sipping cocktails while exchanging business cards and pleasantries. The goal? Meeting people who can provide opportunities or solutions to problems. However, networking is much more than that.
Networking is about building long-lasting relationships with others. It’s about creating a connection with someone who would be happy to hear from you a year later. They’d be interested in knowing about your projectsβboth the good and the badβand might even leverage their knowledge and contacts for mutual benefit. Sociologists call this social capital. The more people you know who fit this description, the more valuable your network becomes.
Networking can happen almost anywhere:
However, not all networking events are created equal. Many are filled with people who drain your time, energy, and resources without offering anything in return. Your best bet is attending specialty events where people with particular skills gather. These individuals are often more than happy to speak about their passions, providing a richer learning experience.
One often overlooked advantage of networking is the confidence boost you gain from constantly stepping out of your comfort zone. Whether you’re introverted or extroverted, engaging with new people can enhance your self-esteem and prove invaluable throughout your life.
As we’ve mentioned in many of our previous videos, “Your network is your net worth.” This holds true through the ages. Those with a strong circle of connections can always rely on them. Those without one don’t have that luxury. A robust network can accelerate your growth, bringing more opportunities your way. Strategic partnerships and recommendations can go a long way, and you can never have too many of those in your corner.
Now, while all of this sounds fantastic, we can already hear some of you saying, “But, I’m an introvert. I’m shy. I can barely talk to one person, let alone navigate a room full of people.” That’s perfectly fine! It just means you’re not there yet. Start small:
Here are some straightforward steps to improve your networking skills:
Don’t stand against a wall staring into space. Be approachable and show that you’re open to conversations.
Enter conversations with the aim of learning about the other person. Show genuine interest in them and their work.
Ask questions about their hobbies, interests, passions, and why they are at the event. People love to recommend resources and discuss similar interests.
Think of it like a tennis match: you talk a little, they talk a little, and so on. Keep it balanced and engaging.
After a few minutes into the conversation, offer a tip or advice. You could also connect them with someone who can help. People generally feel an internal drive to reciprocate.
Don’t bond over how terrible the event or a speaker is. Focus on the positive. Optimists often outperform pessimists and realists in the long run.
People value their time. Make sure your conversations are short but meaningful.
Think about how you made your current friends. Most relationships started in varied circumstances, bonding over little things. With time, this will lead to quality friendships. Just don’t force it.
If you want to get better at networking, we highly recommend the book Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi. You’ll find a multitude of tools to elevate your networking game.
Human beings are social creatures. So why not improve this aspect of your life? Make sure to subscribe and follow us on social media to ensure you never miss out on the daily value we provide. You can never have too much motivation in your life. We handpicked this video for you to watch next. Looking forward to seeing you back here tomorrow!
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